Happy Rebirth Day

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These days I look forward to birthdays with equal parts trepidation, amazement, and delight. It seems they are coming around faster – didn’t I just turn 50 a day or two ago?

I’m amazed at all the changes, that’s for sure. And I’m generally delighted to celebrate with friends and family. Still, I fondly remember as a child when my mom would tell me that I could do (and eat) anything I wanted for my birthday. In my second adulthood, I realize that I miss that.

So I’ve decided to have a rebirth day. I’m picking a day where I literally do (yes, and eat) anything I want. A day of personal hedonism. I recently found out that my mom tries to set aside a day each week that she calls “Be Good To Betty Day”. Hmmmmm must be something in the genes.

I’m really enjoying the planning phase. So many possibilities. What would most feed my soul? What might contribute to my rebirth? Besides, if not now, when? I have to work (play) on what my second half of life is going to look like.

Thursday is the big day. Dewitt is on a business trip; I’m home alone. I’ll finish up chores and appointments before then and start up again on Friday.

I might go for a morning paddle on the lake while it is calm. Or get up early to photograph the wildflowers and hummingbirds in the forest fire burn area that is coming back to life. I’m thinking pancakes and bacon for breakfast. Then a little reading – maybe a hike. Scrabble with Theresa Venus might be an afternoon possibility. With wine, and of course chocolate.

I want really spicy food for dinner – Thai or Hunan. I’d like to read for awhile and watch the sunset. Maybe dance a little hula if I feel like it. Maybe not.

I’m hoping that this will be the first of many such days. I likely won’t be able to do one a week, but maybe one every month or two. I’m curious as to whether time will seem to be moving as fast or whether I can recapture the “endless” days of childhood.

Unstructured, delicious time. More nourishing than food. I want to consciously make this a part of my second adulthood. And unlike a child, I will be acutely aware of how precious each of these moments is.

What might your rebirth day look like? Or if not a whole day, a rebirth afternoon? A couple of hours? And can you create the time and space for your own small rebirth?

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8 Responses to Happy Rebirth Day

  1. Dee July 13, 2011 at 6:59 pm #

    Beautiful writing….you always make me think. Sometimes nothing comes out though. I’m actually having my second adulthood by taking care of myself….everyday. 🙂

  2. Theresa July 13, 2011 at 7:32 pm #

    Whoo Hoo – count me in for that Scrabble game sistah

  3. Anne July 13, 2011 at 9:48 pm #

    OMG! You are so righteous! I should be there to play Scrabble w/ you two and shake up the game!! Your day that you’ve planned sounds fantastic in everyway. I know you will take some lovely pix. I got two wonderful pieces of new from my kids today: funny how some days are just over the top w/ goodness! (Better than taking a bite out of the shit sandwhich that life may just have just handed you!)

  4. Sherry from Alabama July 14, 2011 at 6:45 am #

    Thank you for this post! A “Be good to Me” day is exactly what I need. I’ve had worrys about my husband’s health and my grown children’s problems for too many weeks in a row now. My real birthday (52!) is coming up this Sunday and I’ve already tried to warn myself that with everything going on in our family that they probably won’t remember what the day is. So instead of feeling sorry for myself, I’m going to give myself of a gift of a good day. But I need to spend “my day” with a friend or two. That always helps me forget my problems for a while and cheers me up. Thank you for the inspiration!

    Sherry @ A Happy Valentine

  5. Barbara July 14, 2011 at 7:03 am #

    What a lovely idea. You have inspired me to create more rebirth days for myself as well. 🙂

  6. Holly July 14, 2011 at 8:11 am #

    Your mom is a very smart woman. Enjoy your day!

  7. goodpix July 15, 2011 at 7:26 pm #

    My best friend died when she was 53 I still remember her birthday every year. It is 19 years . her birthday is tomorrow July 16 th. My other half is “so what is the big deal about birthdays” … I told him when you are dead you stop having them . it is important to acknowledge them , you did it you finished the year and started another . an achievement in it’s own right.. Happy REBIRTHDAY!!!

  8. Dale July 21, 2011 at 11:46 pm #

    I love all these comments and your post too Lynette!

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