Sweet Six-ty

Change For The Better © lynette sheppard

Change For The Better © lynette sheppard

Enjoy this guest post by one of our favorite Menopause Goddesses, Saskia Andreola.

Embracing 60 this past year has been far better and, in many ways, serendipitous than I could have imagined when I was that 16-year-old, wildly-impetuous Jersey Girl. The only thing I miss is my butt. A girlfriend of mine use to tease me that I should turn around and introduce myself sticking out my derriere because of the compliments I’d get. I would have rather had her wonderful breasts, as I was lacking in that department.

There are parts of me that have been rejuvenated and enhanced and didn’t come with my genetic packaging; but that’s been a conscious choice. Because the simple truth is that when we look our best, we feel our best, and everyone in our inner circle “wins.”

Running a plastic surgery practice while working closely with patients on a very personal level has taught me that we all have a basic need to be paid attention to and feel recognized. I admire women who choose to age gracefully, however, I’m not one of them…yet. It is a relief/maybe a release not to have the 3-inch heels taking up real estate in my closet. Gone are the tight jeans, long nails and extra time in front of the mirror. I don’t miss them anymore because I’m not interested in pretending to be younger than my hard-earned and well-deserved years on the planet.

These days it’s much more intriguing to me hearing someone’s story of what hoops they’ve had to jump through, lessons they’ve learned and choices they’ve made that makes them who they are instead of wanting to know where they bought their shoes or had their hair done. Doesn’t mean I don’t ask, I do, because to be noticed and to be complimented is one of life’s easy pleasures.

There is a ring of truth to the statement, whether it is fair or not; “When a man gets up to speak, people listen. When a woman gets up to speak, if they like what they see, then they listen.”

Having 5 planets in Leo, born under the sign of the Dragon, and being an 8 on the Enneagram scale has given me plenty of fire this lifetime. Now that I’m 60, it feels great to be comfortable in my skin….of course if it were a little tighter, I wouldn’t complain (smile).

Saskia Andreola RN runs Dr. Clyde Ishii’s plastic surgery practice in Honolulu Hawai`i. She is also one of our satellite Menopause Goddesses. To learn more, click here.

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5 Responses to Sweet Six-ty

  1. jenn April 8, 2013 at 8:37 am #

    thanks for this post. I am 59 this year, and looking at 60 with curiosity. I have decided this year to stop dying my hair, and let the gray show through (in the process, not sure how it will make me feel). Sure, there are dry parts and wrinkles, but overall, I feel more satisfied, more complete, and more sure of my path – which is unfolding now that kids are grown and out – so 60 is good! 50 seems like a long time ago already….and forty – huh – just babes.

  2. LynetteSh April 9, 2013 at 6:47 pm #

    As a goddess pushing sixty, I too liked Saskia’s words of wisdom. I’m 57 – 58 soon, and I have to say that so far my fifties have been my all time favorite time of life. (The forties were a little symptom filled with the Big M. You are right, though. I was a baby then.) So yes, I’m looking forward to being Sweet Six-ty.

  3. Theresa April 21, 2013 at 11:03 pm #

    Loved the post Saskia. Made me smile. Sixty is going to be here in very near future. Might as well because try as I might, I can’t seem to get the word 59 out of my mouth correctly. It just gets stuck.

  4. Estrogen Heidi April 29, 2013 at 11:10 pm #

    Grey is the way to go makes you ‘dignified’! lol. Sixty is great. Just turned it and feel better than ever. Menopause was rough even with estrogen but life is great!!!

  5. LynetteSh May 14, 2013 at 12:19 pm #

    Right on, Heidi!